Prophetic dialogue
Dialogue between human beings is the primary means of communication , before they have a way educational , or other ; Man object community does not live only in the group , and so can life with this group , and to reflect on the basic needs he must dialogue with those around him ; child needs to to ask the parents what they want and so on.
Prophetic dialogue
Watching the biography of the Prophet peace be upon him fairly to realize that Muhammad peace be upon him is the messenger of God and truly honest ; because it can not be for everyone to gather in his life and manners recap human virtues , and the summit of human means in dealing with people , but to be a prophet infallible revelation to him .
Each specialist and an expert in his field can be permeated by a certain life of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him ; Valdaih reformer find Bgith , and political will learn lessons seriously , and the military commander will receive his demand , and the psychiatrist will learn from the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him , and how can it not ? The God Almighty said : { I've had you in the Messenger of Allah a good example for those who had hopes for Allah and the Last Day } [parties : 21 ] .
As well as the Prophet peace be upon him better than the use of dialogue at all; is peace be upon him knows the function of dialogue , and its benefits , and methods , and etiquette , and the arts , has practiced peace be upon him best have throughout his life with Muslims and infidels , with men and women , with Sheikh and child alike.
It was the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him used dialogue as a means of communication and compassion with others ..
Dialogue and communication with others
The communication is great value in the life of the Prophet peace be upon him ; Messenger - all the Messenger - its mission of advocacy and communication, and will not be able to perform such a task , but if it happens the people and the full costs , and have dialogue and to question with him : { O Prophet was sent down to you from your Lord, although not do what amounted to his } [table: 67 ] .
The Apostle is not fit to be isolated Antoaúaa does not talk to people and do not have dialogue , as well as be severe thick printing ; Almighty says: { the great mercy of God Lent if you're rough and the heart to shake around } [ Al-Imran: 159 ] .
The task of conveying the message to the fullest, and the responsibility of the author linked to human hearts the adoption of dialogue as a means to communicate with them .
And dialogue as well as a way of compassion .
Yes , I say: a way of compassion ! !
He peace be upon him was merciful and friendly , and the mercy which is the common factor is evident through all his conversations .
I've talked with the Prophet peace be upon him believers and unbelievers , and with all the compassion and was kindness and gentleness radiate in the dialogue , not the Prophet peace be upon him toughen the one , or offend the human being no matter how young , or would say among the people .
It was the Prophet peace be upon him interviewing a stroke , or to teach and educate , or to call to Islam , or to negotiate , or to live with around him , and all these ways of lacking compassion, and truth of God Almighty says : { We sent thee mercy to the worlds } [ Prophets : 107 ] .
However the whole endeavor of many Muslims to search for arts dialogue and communicate with others in the Western books , and when the book and the authors regardless of their skill will not be attained one tenth of what it was at the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him of the capacity and skills in the art of dialogue and communication .
The dialogue was one of the features of a way of life of the Prophet peace be upon him , was not a rare event in the attitudes of casual ; Messenger peace be upon him was not a dictator ordering collapse can not tolerate hearing another opinion as a lot of people in their homes , or rulers in theirs, but it was peace upon him a lot of dialogue , improved listening to others .
Attributes dialogue with the Prophet's companions
Make the dialogue was prophetic in two important ; namely:
1 - Jamal goals.
2 - beauty means .
The beauty of the objectives of the dialogue of the Prophet
Not the Prophet peace be upon him the dialogue in order to cut the time or to fill the void , not peace be upon him exploits dialogue and enters in the litigation or in order to emerge and prevail , but his dialogue peace be upon him for goals wonderful , and it was often achieve more than one goal in one dialogue , or to achieve all these goals together , and these goals :
Dating
It was peace be upon him is acquainted with others through dialogue , Valtaref goal of the major objectives in the life of a Muslim ; until Allah Almighty mentioned as a goal of making it glorified people into nations and tribes : { O people, I have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes Ye sight of God that God knows expert } [rooms : 13 ] .
Smoothed relations with the Sidekick :
The Prophet peace be upon him used dialogue to soften the atmosphere between him and his companions ; They were , God bless them carrying his revered great may make them reticent to deal with peace be upon him , while he was a peace be upon him wants to be kind to them and Atbasit them to check on their condition ; narrated from Jabir bin Abdullah, may Allah be pleased with him said: We were with the Prophet peace be upon him in the battle , and when he Qflana we were close to the city, rushed to the camel me Kattouf , Vlhakna passengers from the rear Vnkhs Bairy Banzh was with him , Fassar Bairy as best as you behind camels , if I turned the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him , I said: O Messenger of Allah , I am a wedding modern era . He said: « Otzojt ? » I said: Yes . He said: « Ibkra or Thiebaud ? » I said: but Thiebaud . He said: « Could a virgin players and the players » . He said: When we made we went to get into , he said: « Omhluwa even intervened at night - any dinner - so Tmicht Alcosp and Tsthadd absent » .
This is how the Prophet interfere peace be upon him specifically in the affairs of life companions through dialogue ; to reassure them and guide them , has come an increase in another novel for a Muslim from Jabir : I said: O Messenger of Allah , if I was afraid to enter the sisters and me among them. He said: « If Vmak ; that women be married to her religion and her money and beauty , you raised your hands in the same religion » . [1] .
Education :
The most important of the dish dialogue for education is the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him , who was the best and the best teacher for his nation , but for all humanity ; then positions of dialogue Prophet peace be upon him with his companions in order to teach them Tents for limited ; These positions include:
He sat the Prophet peace be upon him one day with his companions , he said to them - as narrated by Abu Huraira may Allah be pleased with him that the Prophet peace be upon him : « Do you know what the bankrupt ? » They said: Do not bankrupt us from AED has not chattel . He said: «The bankrupt of my nation comes the Day of Resurrection with prayers , fasting, zakat , and comes may cursing this and tossed this and eat the money that the shedding of the blood of this and hit this, the petition that of its attractions this of its attractions , the Ffinet its attractions before you spend what it is, taken from their sins and put forward it, then put in the fire » .
In this talk , use the Prophet peace be upon him dialogue in the correct concept with companions , which is the meaning of « bankruptcy » who holds public on bankruptcy material , and this is what he replied by companions on the question Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him ; said: « bankrupt us of not AED nor his belongings » . Here are aiming for the Prophet peace be upon him that concept , and links the Day of Resurrection , and the account that is in it, and among them, that bankruptcy is a real come slave virtues are many, but comes so much harm has committed against its people , petition the oppressed of its attractions even perish , and becomes bankrupt the truth , then it raises from their sins , and then cast into hell Mhassora .
In this way, a feat instill the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him in the hearts of his friends hate to offend people ; so as not to waste their good deeds , and become bankrupt scales of the Hereafter .
Remove suspicions :
The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him as people know right dialogue ; removes them by what are getting from suspicions ; narrated that Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him , said : The people of the companions of the Prophet peace be upon him they asked him : Verily we find in ourselves what is growing one of us to speak it . He said: « have you found ? » . They said: Yes . He said: « That is clear faith » .
Here we find the Prophet peace be upon him pacify companions who gives them the devil Busawsh about God Almighty, and shows them that this is because Atsafhm pure faith .
Beauty means in the dialogue of the Prophet
As we have found the Prophet peace be upon him a model in the beauty of its objectives of dialogue; , we also found in the liquid in the dialogue ; and summarize these methods in the following points :
1 - Literature expression and selection of words .
2 - Listen to the other party .
3 - smile during the dialogue.
4 - to accept the opinions of others and not to enter into a long debate .
5 - patience to harm the second party .
6 - Capacity chest and do not show the boredom of frequent question a second party.
7 - Determination of the psychological state of the other party .
8 - care to help the other party and raise ambition .
9 - not to embarrass the other party , and especially in front of people .
10 - stop at the lack of knowledge , lack of fatwa without knowledge .
11 - Update including people understand and comprehend .
12 - limiting it to answer the question as much as , and increase according to the desire of the liquid , and sometimes up easy gift.
13 - Do not ridicule or mockery of the silly mistakes .
14 - complimenting without a lie, and praise without exaggeration .
15 - blame Rapid Transit If you receive errors when you light the second party .
16 - Strength in the right .
17 - guidance to the most important , and not to engage in does not mean .
18 - the thrill of Izhab boredom and draw attention .
19 - clarity and do not hesitate .
20 - Patience on the staleness of others, or lack of proper appreciation of him .
21 - show love to the other party and to ensure it .
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